Ryder Alexander McClintock was born by emergency C-Section on December 5th , 2012 at 31 weeks gestation He was 2lbs 11 oz at birth , and 15.5 inches long! It was a day that changed my life forever. Ryder thrived from the start of his teeny tiny life . He required only the tiniest bit of assistance breathing , and that was only for 12 hours after his birth. A few days after he was born , a doctor came to speak to us in the NICU. He had told us that they had heard a murmur while listening to Ryder's heart , and they wanted to send him for an echocardiogram to look into it. So they did the echo , the next day he came to talk to us again..the murmur they had heard , was an "aortopulmonarywindow". Ill never forget the moment they told us our little peanut , under 3 lbs, would be needing open heart surgery to allow him to life a full life. I was scared , angry, and beyond overwhelmed.. All I could think was "why him... Why us..this isn't fair.. Haven't we been through enough already !?" We had suffered 3 miscarriages in a matter of two years, all we wanted was to be called Mommy and Daddy, so when I got pregnant with Ryder , and the pregnancy stayed , I was on top of the world , cause I knew I had to be giving birth to a miracle. Ryder's doctors wanted him to reach 2.5 kilos in order to do the surgery , he was just so tiny they didn't want to heighten the risk factor. However , Ryder's little body was struggling , his heart was working far to hard , he couldn't put on weight. I knew then that this was going to be the hardest thing he'd ever go through in his life , and the hardest thing I'd have to experience in my 22 years of life.. We were playing the waiting game for a long time , doctors wanted more than anything for him to gain weight , but it started to get critical. Ryder's heart started to fail on Christmas Eve - we knew then that surgery needed to be done soon. They did everything they could to try and prolong time before his life changing surgery, only for him to reach yet again another hurdle. Ryder got Necrotizing Entercolitis , a very bad infection in his intestines that affects the bowels (commonly in premature babies) . Now Ryder would not be able to have surgery until the NEC was completly gone. Ryder was no longer able to eat , I couldn't hold him, all I could do was sit there and stare at him while he looked lifeless and in pain. It seemed every day things got worse and worse. I sat in that hospital every day , watching moms take their babies home from the hospital , and mine just kept getting sicker and sicker. Luckily , Ryder only ended up with stage 2 NEC. They weighed the risk factors , and decided surgery needed to be done ASAP or it would be to late.. Our time had come and we were being flown to Edmonton. On January 11th, 2013 we hopped on a plane to start a new chapter to our emotional roller coaster our life had become. On January 17th,2013 Ryder went in for his open heart surgery. It was the scariest moment of our lives.
It's so hard to believe that at this time , a month ago , our little peanut had just been taken from my arms to go in for his open heart surgery. That will be a moment that I will never forget... This little guy has beat the odds , and overcame a huge hurdle in his tiny little life ! I truly believe more and more every day that Ryder is a miracle. We are so lucky , and so thankful to finally have this guy at home with us.. And every day is another memory! I fall even more in love with him every single day ! Some people never get to meet their hero in their lifetime.... And I gave birth to mine. On January 24th, 2013 we flew back to winnipeg , his surgery went even more perfect than dr.ross could have every imagined, and Ryder was healing perfectly. He was finally starting to gain weight , and now all we needed was to get him bottle feeding , and gaining weight , and our little miracle would be closer to finally coming home with us!!! On February 9th, 2013 - for my 23rd birthday , Ryder was discharged from the hospital ! It was the best gift I could ever ask for ! ♥ now I spend every day making more memories with my new little family , that I waited so long for . I truely believe he had a guardian angel watching over him , helping him overcome these obstacles. Ryder is now over 5lbs and changing and growing every day. I'm so thankful for him , and know we are very lucky to have such a strong little fighter. ♥ ♥